Who would have thought working out how to propose to your boyfriend would make you feel so nervous?
Have you spent hours thinking/worrying/imagining it, trying to decide on the right words to say? …
“Will you marry me?”… just four little words, yet so much hinges on his answer 🙂
Let’s start at the beginning … as a classy lady, are you doing the right thing in proposing?
As your future happiness depends so much on his reply, please read “How do you get a man to commit to you” and “Is proposing to your boyfriend a good idea?” before moving on where …
There’s a really helpful video I suggest you watch. It’s all about how men think … which is a complete mystery for most women … you’ll understand your man so much better having watched it.
It’s quite long … about 40 minutes. If you don’t have time to watch now, make sure to Save/Pin this post and come back to it later …
You’ll be so glad you watched it. You might want to share it with friends. It could save them the pain of so many misunderstandings …it really is an eye-opener.
Have you tried to see your proposal from his point of view ?
Presumably you’ve been together “for a while” and at some stage you’ve talked about a future together …
Is it the right time for your proposal ?
Would you like to make the transition from girlfriend to fiancee without scaring him away? Have a look at the covert ways to get your commitment-shy guy excited about giving you that ring in my free e-book below 🙂
So you want to be able to read the signs a guy likes you but is scared to ask you out ? Relax … it’s a lot easier than you think.
Let’s first of all look at what he’s scared of…
Simply put, he’s scared you are going to turn him down if he asks you for a date…
If you can understand his concern, then you can help him to ask you for a date, in a very lady-like manner of course, without being at all obvious about it.
Want to know more? It’s in my free e-book below, where I show you what to say and do to avoid those early communication problems 🙂
Relax! You won’t need all these questions to ask on a first date 🙂
Have some of these questions on your phone as prompts …
This will give you confidence that you have a back-up plan if needed
If you find there are awkward silences and you can’t think of a thing to say, excuse yourself, nip to the Ladies and check your phone 🙂
Wanting to know how to be irresistible to men?
It’s much easier than you may think 🙂
Not one of my girlfriends knew this secret … they thought it was all to do with physical attributes 🙂
Not necessarily so … though they may be a part of it.